Judgmental mentality, do you have to throw it away?

why holding such a mentality which can hurt somebody?

I’m judgmental, and you too, even we all are judgmental. 

It’s a simple human nature, where we all hold a judgmental mentality.

But, some people use it more often. 

They just throw their judgment on each and everything, why so?

You! yes if you also too judgmental, then you should throw it away right now. 

You just pass judgment without knowing their mental state, background, even the situation they are going through.

You are maybe feeling cool by passing judgment, but you may don’t know how does it affect the person, the mental stability of him you are passing judgment to. 

Either he or she is black or white, short or tall whatever maybe, is it their fault? Ask yourself first, before passing any comments.

Before getting into the further discussion you should know,

why we often judge others :

The most common answer is we just see them from our point of view, we just put our thought into their personality.

For instance, 

there have two glass jars, one is yours and another from someone else. His jar is filled with plain water and yours with coloured water. 

Now you want to see his jar same as like yours, and so then you put some of your water into his jar. 

And you know what? you just think the same during passing any judgment. 

It shows your mentality clearly.

You try to see them from your imagination, what you like.

Yet we don’t often see the originality they have.

Is it fair enough? Do you think so?

If so then, my friend you need to change the way you think. 

Everyone is different in the world, everyone hold a different personality, we all have a different mentality and that’s why we all are unique. 

So, from next time rethink before passing any judgment, make some changes on your judgmental mentality.

Some signs tell you that you are probably a judgemental individual:

We often make our decision by just seeing the unfolded character of other people, even we don’t try to look into the background stories. 

We just make some assumptions and try to put these on the other personality and more often we forget to uncover the grey filter from our eyes through which we see the world.

These are some signs more likely to show your inner judgemental intention 

• You like to criticise other people. 
• You often compare other people with yourself to show your greatness.
• You have low self-worthiness.
• More often you doubt your personality.
• You might try to find others fault to show your credibility.
• You have jealousy about other people around you.
• You are afraid of exposing your weaknesses in front of others.

These are some probable reasons of why you like to make a judgemental statement against other people.

Stop being judgmental and stop making any judgment about others.